Wednesday, May 16, 2007















There are friends who remain true and trustful under all circumstances and there are friends who remain with you only desiring the good. Islam urges to have cordial relations with others and to avoid corruption and the harmful effects of the company of the wicked and the mischievous, strictly forbidding every kind of contact and intimacy with them. The first kind of friend is very few, and their friendship is like a mirror to you. In deed, we must be fair to our friends, and must want for them that which we want for ourselves.

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said,"A true believer is a mirror to his brother. He prevents him from any harm."
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said,"A person follows the ways and conducts of his friends."


On the other hand, one encounters fools, avaricious, people cowards, and liars. The fool wants to help others, but cause more harm to them despite good intentions. The avaricious one takes but does not give back to anyone. The coward flees at the smallest danger, abandoning everyone. And the liar does not benefit others, brings animosity and resentment, and causes serious damage to others. Also, the liar is not trusted even if he/she is telling the truth. It is reported,


” As for a liar, life with him can never be pleasant for you. He carries tales from you to others and from others to you. If he gives you a true report, a false one follows it. His reputation is slurred. So much so that when he says something true, nobody believes him. Due to the enmity which he entertains in his heart for people, he estranges them from one another and creates malice in their hearts. Be careful and do your duty to Allah.


“These kinds of individuals might call themselves as your friends, but they do more ill-service to you as well as to the society and in the long run. It is advised,"


Avoid the company of the vicious, because your character would pick up their degenerate and deviant qualities without your knowing it." The Glorious Qur'an says,"O woe is me! Would that I had not taken

such a one as my friend." 25:28


This is an article I have read in mail box I have thought about it deeply. So many things came across me suddenly I found one think, it is very interesting that is why I bring it here

One Friday we went to Mosque for Jummah prayers my wife goes into ladies Prayer room and me into gents’ prayer room. After the prayers my wife accompanied with and Indian lady with Indian costumes like Shalwar from that day the Indian girl has stared a good relationship with my wife finally last weekend she leave for good from Seychelles, I found a lot of changes in his life style see the way they are dressed

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